Happy 31st Birthday to Me + My Vision for the Year Ahead

Today is my 31st birthday and even though the day has just started, I can already feel something extraordinary brewing.

Thanks to the transformative year I had last year, I get to begin my personal New Year as the powerful, loving and responsible woman I’ve finally embraced in the place I’ve prayed for years to be, both literally – in my own home in Charlotte, NC – and figuratively –  living my life like it’s golden. For the first time in my adult life, I am satisfied with where I am and confident about where I am going.

My vision for the year ahead includes less caution and more bold action; less limitations and more possibilities; less negative self-talk and more self-assurance; less exhaustion and more self-care; less frustration and more patience; less anxiety and more trust; less time online and more time connecting in person; less processed and fast food and more nutritious meals; less laziness and a more active lifestyle; less beating up my reflection in the mirror and more body positivity; less quick noes and more intentional yeses; less careless spending and more responsible investing; less time spent on the couch and more time spent exploring; less later and more now; less sharing on social media in real time and more being present; less Mommy and more Tramayne; less Tramayne and more God; less complaining and more gratitude; less excuses and more results.

I am so excited about what’s to come this year and even more excited that I get to start bringing my vision to life now. That’s one of the best birthday gifts I’ve ever received.

What’s your vision? What’s one thing you can do now to bring it to life? Ready, set, comment below!

7 Replies to “Happy 31st Birthday to Me + My Vision for the Year Ahead”

  1. These are awesome goals! I think it so important to self-reflect and always work on being the best “you” that you can be! Happy Birthday!

  2. I’m so happy for you! Congrats and I hope you reach every one of your goals.

  3. Happy birthday! That was beautiful! I hope you have a wonderful day with your family. My vision is simpler… volunteer more and pick up more trash… 😉

  4. You look ravishing and beautiful at 31! Love your photos! Hope you had a lovely day! -Floby, All About My Inspiration

  5. Happy Birthday! I love your ambition and optimism for the coming year! I’ll be 31 in July and I definitely intend to focus on improving myself more, too!

  6. Happy birthday! I love that you have a clear vision for your life. The 30s are amazing!

  7. It’s great to use your birthday as a chance to look forward to the next year and seeing what change you’d like to see. Mine is coming up and I am going to have to think on what I want to see in the next year!

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